Confession time. If I don’t know you, and you don’t know me, I’m very shy. Reserved. You won’t get much out of me the first time we meet…or the second…or maybe even beyond that. I won’t compete for attention, so in a group of people I tend to do even worse. I won’t offer my true self until I feel entirely safe. In a group of adults, I revert to feeling like a child in disguise. What do I say? Surely there is nothing within me that anyone else would care to hear……….